Friday, May 4, 2018
Beware Of Narcissists and Sociopaths!
It is no surprise that there is a growing number of sociopaths and narcissists in our current world. Our whole system breeds more and more of them each day through the fundamentals of capitalism, socialism, and of course social media is an absolute breeding ground for psychopathic behavior that requires no empathy at all. Billions of interactions happening everyday on the internet and no feeling or emotion is needed to convey all of these messages.
It is a dream set-up for those who have no empathy or care for others, and they use it each and every day to prey on good people. And this certainly does not only occur on the internet, I am just saying that is the reason for the rapid growth of psychopathic behavior in society. The individuals who have sprung from this are affecting people all around the globe each day, and because much of the behavior is covert and well planned out by 'intelligent' people, abuse continues to grow for the empaths and good people of the world.
We are being preyed upon daily and most of the time have no idea it is even happening until it is often too late. Being abused by someone with a narcissistic personality disorder or a sociopath, especially over a long period of time, leaves the victim scarred and empty. The victim has been abused for so long that all they can do is try to get away from their abuser, because we are left with very little energy for anything else, and if you try to fight back against the wrong-doer, they have already been carefully crafting lies and deceit behind your back which makes fighting near impossible.
We all have these people in our lives but very few can recognize them. They walk amongst us as seemingly normal and friendly people, but they will stab you in the back at a moments notice, and have no remorse for their actions whatsoever. They are often even revered in our communities because you only get to see their surface and they are very clever at presenting themselves well to others, and act as chameleons who will shift their behavior based on self-gain.
I am personally tired of being abused by these 'less than human' beings and have been studying for years about how to recognize them. Although I am highly knowledgeable about what to look for I still get fooled by the more clever ones myself. I had a thought yesterday that helped me put the recognition into a simpler perspective.
'A Narcissist will always tell you what you WANT to hear, whereas an empath (good and caring person) will always tell you what you need to hear!' If someone is always flattering you and telling you what you want to hear, be wary of this person and do more research before freely giving away your trust. If someone is telling you what you need to hear, they likely care about you and are trying to be honest. It is so much easier to love the narcissist because they know exactly how to stroke your ego.
Here is my point; we lock people up in jails and prisons every single day for physically abusing others, so why are we not locking people up for abusing people emotionally, and knowingly. In my opinion, these are the most evil and destructive people on the planet because they can not even face you head on. I am against physical abuse of any kind but it is easier to get over the physical problems than the trauma they create.
We all know what differing types of trauma can do to an individual, so why are we allowing predators to continue their abusive emotional behavior? Because it is so much harder to prove when we can not physically see the evidence, this is why narcissists and sociopaths use this form of abuse. On top of that, the victim ends up so emotionally drained that there is no fight left in them.
I guarantee that most of you deal with these types of people on a daily basis and have not recognized them yet, but you can sense that something is wrong. Explore your senses and look deeper. Do a little reading about narcissists on the internet or join one of the many supports groups on Facebook and educate yourself. There are thousands, if not millions, of people on the net talking about this and looking for abuse support.
This is a problem of epidemic proportions and the only way to overcome it is through awareness and exposure. Stop letting these 'less than human' beings abuse others by taking a stand. If you feel that something is wrong, then there probably is, but don't stop there. Take action and learn the signs to protect yourself. Take it from someone who has been abused long-term more than once, it will take its toll on you and cause a decline in your health.
Arm yourself with knowledge and expose these individuals for the abusers that they are. Don't let them get away with their inhumane behavior anymore.